All parents and hopeful parents out there know how expensive it is to raise a child. However, it seems to be getting more costly every year. As inflation increases, basic needs are beginning to be out of reach for many of the population, including just the medical cost of delivering a baby in America. Younger generations like Gen Z and Millenials are having babies later and later, if at all, mainly due to the outrageous costs. From education, to housing, to food and clothing to everything in between, the cost of raising a child in America has become astronomical compared to even 30 years ago. Here is a breakdown of what it looks like to have a child in America today. 

What the numbers look like

Birth

Giving birth will cost you thousands of dollars. It might cost around 5,000 for a standard delivery that goes as planned or $14,000 or more for a c-section or if there are complications. You will likely need $60,000 or more to cover adoption fees if you go the adoption route. The cheapest state in the country to give birth is Nebraska, which averages $8,805. Many new parents do not consider the cost of actually giving birth when budgeting for a child. 

Housing

Housing is another thing that only gets more expensive, and it doesn't matter whether you rent or purchase. Many people prefer houses to raise children as they afford much more space than an apartment, but it does not come cheap. 

Food

The cost of food for children has skyrocketed in the past few decades. It might start small when they are young, but it will continue to grow as they do. You need to budget a few hundred dollars every month on food costs to ensure they are getting a balanced diet. 

Education

Where you live, a public school might not provide your child with the education you want them to receive. If this is the case, you need to budget for a private school, which can be as much as college tuition in some cases. In the least expensive states in the U.S., private schools still cost around $4,000 for tuition, while the most expensive ones cost almost $28,000. This is just for tuition, so you will need to add costs for supplies and technology, after-school activities, tutoring, and other programs or clubs they want to attend. 

Then, if they decide to go to a four-year college, those tuition rates can range from $18,000 to $55,000 per year, depending on the school. 

Care

Children need a lot of care, especially when they are babies. You can expect to spend at least $50 a month on clothes alone during their first year. Medical bills can cost thousands out of pocket just for routine examinations and vaccinations. When you need to go back to work, nannies or daycares can be as much as your mortgage, especially in places like Washington, D.C., Oregon, or California. 

What this means for families

Raising a child significantly affects the parent's mental health, careers, and debt. 40% of parents say that childcare costs have caused tensions in their relationship. Make sure you look up the prices of things like daycare before getting pregnant, if possible, to avoid these conflicts in the future. More than half of parents have gone into debt to buy nonessential items or experiences for their children, mainly because they want their kids to have a better life than they did. Finding the balance between financial health and giving your child what you couldn't have is not simple. 

Nearly three in four working parents have had their work impacted by childcare plans falling through at the last minute. Always have a backup plan in the works when it comes to childcare. Children also influence their parents' career choices, as parents need to make more money to cover childcare costs or have a flexible work schedule. Raising a child reaches into all areas of life, far beyond just providing them with a loving home. 

Bottom Line

Raising a family is not an easy task emotionally, physically, or financially, so it is essential to consider what you are signing up for before having children. However, most people with children would not change a thing and find ways to cut back on costs to ensure their kids have a happy and healthy life. If you struggle to pay back debt or get your finances under control, make your free MyCredello account today.